As a parent, it can be frustrating when your child clings to you wherever you. Acknowledge your daughter’s feelings when she is upset, and try to keep her routine as predictable as possible to help foster a sense of security. When you have to leave your child, help her get busy with an activity before you go. Make your goodbye short and sweet with a few reassuring words and a cheerful wave good-bye. She will likely be upset, but prolonging the goodbye will only make it more upsetting for both of you. While it may be tempting to sneak out while she is preoccupied to avoid all the tears, this often makes children more clingy because they quickly learn that you can disappear at any time. Try leaving your daughter for small periods of time at first, and then slowly increasing the time you are away.
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